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Hi all,

I've been sneezing since morning..already taken my medicine but still I don't feel like sleeping at all..now that's what I call super-sinus!!! Haha. I've been dealing with sinus since I was born, so my body sort of like immune to any medicines I guess:P

Well today..I decided to talk about love. In general, specific whatever. Just to let out my thoughts on this once in a blue moon (yeah right).

Love is the strangest thing I must say. Before you fall in love, you'll list down (or at least put in mind) all the criteria of your future bf /gf /prince charming /princess such as 1. Handsome and hard abs like Taylor Lautner........................................ oh sorry, I kept on drooling. 2. Taller than me  3. Love eating  4. Own at least a Lamborghini  5. Know how to cook ...the list will goes on and on..yada yada yada....

But believe me, when you meet that special person, you usually meet those who doesn't meet any of your criteria or maybe just 1 or 2 basic criteria in the list. Yes, you did list Taylor Lautner look-alike but you'll end up with a fair skin guy with quite bear-y figure. So what? Love surpasses that. Once you'll get to know a person deep down inside, know their heart and the way they treat you, you just don't care about how they look anymore (but please be reminded that appearance is important, take a very good care of your image okey, you don't want your prince charming/gf feel bored or ashamed to be seen with you! Haha).

Love makes you happy but it hurts you at the same time. There'll be conflicts, ups and downs, tantrums etc but if you know how to handle such things, you can get through anything calmly. And know what, that's what a relationship is all about. You argue, you fight just to learn and understand more about each other. I heard that if you could pass the 2 years in a relationship, you could get thru everything else afterwards and yes, I did saw this trends in my girlfriends' relationship.

Once you're hurt, there'll be a lack of trust should you want to start a new relationship. Your heart will be broken, that's for sure but you'll learn a lot and you'll avoid the same mistake that you had did before. All in all, all of that are the processes to be more mature in life. Don't get surprise if previously, you loved someone so much that you think you would never let him go, but as the relationship turns sour and meaningless, you'll be happier if you let go. You'll be happy that the person used to be in your life and now that you are going to start over, you're going to smile everytime you remembered all the good and bad times both of you went thru together.

We grow in love. We learn about each other and we try to tolerate with each other's differences in order to make a relationship works.

Love gives peace to our mind, and bring fire to our soul. It makes us feel alive but it also break us sometimes.

Either one, you are blessed if you'll get to be loved back by the person you loved.

And it will mean the world should the two of you end up in a marriage. If not, move on and feel happy for yourself..as only people who love him/herself before they find love, could love others as they have a lot of love inside.

Learn to love yourself, then someone will love you, fret not:)

So smile :) And love.